First you must be honest and ask yourself what it is you really want from a reading. Do yo want to be reassured? Do yo want to hear only good things, like when will yo win the lottery? We all want truly good things to happen to us, of course. No one will ever doubt that. Any reader worth her salt will, however, be objective with your reading and your time. After all, this is a two-way exchange. It is best to have an open mind and to be receptive to what the reader will share with you.

A Tarot reader should always state that the reading is a projected view of the future based on where you are at the present time. Free will and the decisions you face can change the outcome of the Tarot reading. The reader may discuss other possible outcomes in addition to the most likely outcome. Most readers, especially those who are valuable and honest, will not sugarcoat what they say. They will tell you the most likely outcome based on the present conditions.

It follows therefore that finding a good tarot reader should be a mutual interview process. Find the reader that fits with what you are looking for. Whether that is honest guidance, or a fun reading, it could also include wanting a view that is as accurate as possible of the projected outlook of your future. You may simply be seeking assurance or something more from life. There are many different reading styles as there are stars in the sky. Ask any prospective readers how they view their tool of choice, if they use tools, and what their reading style is. Get to know the reader very well! Have good communication flowing freely between you both. A respected reader will tell you when she is not able to assist you in a reading. If this happens, do not be discouraged! The reader is simply following her own conscience and will encourage you to return another day to try again. Or if you requested guidance on a topic she is less comfortable with, she may recommend another reader who has more experience with the topic you want a reading.

It should be noted that all readings are for entertainment purposes and should be treated as such. The amount of weight and consideration you give to the readings you receive should be proportionate to other things of entertainment value. We are all here to have a good time, after all, and enjoyment should be had by both parties involved in the reading process. It is best to have realistic expectations of any reader, Tarot or otherwise. Tarot readers, and those who use other tools, are not miracle workers and can only aid you insofar as you are willing to receive their guidance and expertise.